It’s Your “Last” That Matters Most
If it’s something I hear quite often from people who are new to relationships, it’s that they’re very concerned with their “firsts” as we all tend to put it. Even when the “firsts” come and go, people (mostly young girls, it would seem) still worry about the fact that their “first” will never come again in the same way.
People tend to worry about such a small part of their life. I say small because it’s not as important as your “last”. Sure, you shared an amazing moment with your “first” in some romantic setting and sure it may not feel the same way as you might share it with someone else, but what matters most is the “last” you share those memories with.
Your first is gone and done with (and if your first is your last, then you’re one of the extremely lucky few) but your last will build up on all those memories with you that you can reflect on without shame or pity. And I can almost guarantee this, with your “last” you’ll certainly still acquire a great amount of “firsts”, including the “first” time you spent your life with the one you love.
